Mutual Experience as an Aphrodisiac

When you’re chatting with a new lady, listen carefully for any emotional or stressful events that the two of you might have in common. When you locate one, don’t reveal it right away. Remember it for later.

Instead, respectfully ask her to relate her story. Listen attentively and be sure to respond with the proper facial expressions as she tells her tale. Don't interupt. Don't attempt to do what all men do - rephrase her comments in your own language in an attempt to quickly get to the heart of her situation. Women want to fully explain their feelings. Bite your lip and let her finish her full comments.

Then when she’s told her complete story and has nothing more to say, it’s time for you to tell your similar story. If you can, relate your stressful story in approximately the same emotional tone she used.

Sharing a common anxious experience can create an instant bond between two people. It can create a kind of “us against the world” mentality that can lay the foundation for a close and loving relationship.

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